Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed towards the supposed inadequacy of the male's genitals or his inability to please a woman (and by implication his essential worthlessness as a man and his penis becomes an object of play for the woman).Small breasts humiliation, where scorn is addressed towards the supposed inadequacy of the female's breasts or her inability to please a man (and by implication her essential worthlessness as a woman and her breasts becomes an object of play for the man).Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as toilet, or eating or spending money.Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size, bottom, and slighting of mannerisms such as walking, responsiveness, standard of self-care.Degrading references such as "slut", "tart", "bitch", "faggot" and "whore".Insults and verbal abuse, such as "fat", "ugly", "stupid", "worthless".Verbal belittlement, such as "slave", "boy", "girl", "missy", "pet".Broadly it can be divided into verbal, and physical aspects. It can also be for a set period of time (a " scene") or as an ongoing facet of a relationship. It can be as basic as the desire to kiss and massage feet as a precursor to sex, or it can be complex, involving roleplay or public displays of subservience. As such, it encompasses a range of paraphilia, in particular foot fetish or shoe fetish, body worship, spanking, bondage and most BDSM styles. Humiliation comes into its own as a sexual force when the devotee seeks the humiliation over and above the means, for example when being spanked is primarily valued because of the belittlement involved. Humiliation is not the same as domination as the devotee is not necessarily seeking to be ordered about.
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A professional dominant who specializes in humiliation play is sometimes known as a humiliatrix. Other common names are slave or sub/submissive for the bottom, and Master/ Mistress or dom/dominant for the top. The person being humiliated is often called a bottom, and the person who humiliates them is often called the top. This is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context. Whilst mild or moderate humiliation is not an uncommon part of BDSM or other sexual roleplay, humiliation play can be taken to a point where it becomes considered edgeplay by most people, either due to its extreme nature or due to the controversial views on its psychological impact. The distinction between humiliation and dominance in an activity such as erotic spanking is that the sought after effect is primarily the humiliation, the activity is just a means to that end.
Often it can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations it can also be easily carried out over a long distance or online. It can be verbal or physical, and can be relatively private or public. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself, as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity.
See the talk page for details.Įrotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the mixed and powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned. Please help Wikipedia by adding references. This article or section may contain original research or unverified claims.